Why Do I Keep Avoiding Conflicts? SIMPLE WAY OF DEALING WITH FEAR OF CONFRONTATION
Trust me, we all are afraid of conflicts. We all want to keep the waters calm. But the world doesn't work that way, we need to understand that this is not a strategy that will solve the problem, instead it will passively make it bigger and you won't notice. 1. SPEAK YOUR MIND, BUT KEEP IT EASY AT FIRST Please understand that you're not going to find a magic potion to suddenly quit being afraid. It is a learning process and it will take time. So keep it simple and easy, don't speak whatever you think about the situation or the person. Say what you usually say, but add a taste of your genuine opinion into it. The listener is probably used to listen to your timid personality, so don't shock them, it might make them think you're being aggressive and it might cause you trouble. 2. TALK LESS AND TALK SLOW, MAKE SILENCE YOUR TOOL The thing with people with low self-esteem or self-doubt or fear of judgement is, they tend to hate silence. The moment...